The birth of Baby Alex!
December 29, 2005
(9 lbs, 8 oz; 20 1/2 in; 2:25pm)




This lovely picture was taken during a contraction, before the epidural. Note the hated blood pressure cuff, which turned my hand purple when it was 'monitoring'... every 20 minutes. After the epidural, it monitored every two minutes, which did not give much time for relief. My mom was encouraging me to breathe in one of those patterns they taught in birthing class, and I was not interested.
(Here's all the details of the labor... skip it if you're not interested.)

We had an appointment at 5:30am (originally 6:30) at the hospital, and arrived without incident or exciting event. Check-in was also smooth, and by 6am, I was attached to the bed with an IV drip and the synthetic labor-inducing hormone, Pitocin. The nurse who examined me said I was at 3cm, 80% effaced (once dilation gets to 10cm, and 100% effaced, ‘pushing’ begins).  Travis and I watched Battlestar Galactica (episode commentary) for a while, and then my mom arrived around 9:30. About 9:45, my OBGYN arrived, and ‘ruptured my membranes’. This was quite gushy, but would hurry labor along (Dr’s assessment was that I was still at 3cm, 80%). I believe they also increased the Pitocin dosage, for suddenly I was able to feel the contractions quite strongly! The plan was for me to dilate by 1cm, every hour. The nurse and I also discussed an epidural, and she thought that perhaps it would be good for me to experience ‘natural’ labor for a while. By 10:30, I had enough of this ‘natural’ business, and was ready for medication, especially since I was promised ‘comfortable’. The anesthesiologist came, administered, and left. And came back, as I wasn’t feeling relief.  “Are your toes tingly?” Yes. Unfortunately, the pain had not been with my toes. A stronger dose was administered. And most of my legs were numb. Unfortunately, that is not where the pains of labor occur, either. He (anesthesiologist) came back again, this time with a big syringe. And I didn’t feel a thing from the waist down, and couldn’t feel my legs at all. Or the contractions, blessedly.

The nurse came in around 1:15pm to check me (and notify the OBGYN of my status), and announced that I was at 8cm, 100%. Yeah! The contractions had been rather strong, which was why the smaller doses of anesthetic hadn’t been working (to my understanding, at least). The OBGYN returned about 20 minutes later, and said we were ready to push. Oh!



Here's Travis applying the first diaper. A nurse had demonstrated first, and presumably checked his work when he was finished. Travis changed all the diapers while we were in the hospital, and hasn't lost the ability to once he returned home, either.
Pushing commenced, although I’m not sure how much I was actively participating in it… The anesthetic was turned down somewhat, and the promised ‘comfortable’ was gone. About ½ hour later, I was feeling nauseated with the effort of pushing. Advising the nurse of this, she told me to look the other way (ie, not at her). Travis scrambled for the kidney-shaped vomit dish, then jumped back as I started. Blah! All over the evil and hated blood pressure cuff. Blah! Ricochet out of the dish, hitting my mom square in the face. Take that for commenting about my breath! The nurse was pleased that I had followed her advice, at least. Apparently the exercise helped push the baby down, for he came out with the next set of contractions (I think). It was 2:25 pm.  Baby was hoisted onto my lap, Travis irrevocably severed the physical link between me and the baby, and the nurses started cleaning him up.


Did I want to hold him before or after they gave him his first bath, one asked. At that point, I really didn’t care. I was just so relieved that I no longer felt that horrible pressure. So baby Alex was removed to be weighed, examined, and cleaned up. The medical staff seemed to find it diverting to speculate on his weight, a memorable comment made by the OBGYN in response to a nurses dubiousness about a 10 lb baby, “You didn’t have to lift him up onto her lap. I could’ve used a crane.” The verdict though was 9lb, 8 oz.

Alex came back, swaddled into a football shaped bundle (well, not so pointy at the ends), and I was able to hold him. Smile, my mom directed. I think the pictures show how inclined I was to follow this advice.

Smile? Yeah, right. Much easier to do if you didn't just gave birth.

The pediatrician nurse wasn’t satisfied with Alex’s breathing, so he was taken to the nursery (NICU) for observation and monitoring for about an hour. During this time, Travis and my mom alternated between visiting me and the baby, although I was still worn out from the labor.

(Here's Alex in the nursery. Notice the pointy head and the furry back. The head got back to shape pretty quickly, and the furry back he had inherited from me (as a baby I had a furry back... not now). He also has the cutest little furry ears! When we went to the pediatrician a few days later, he said Alex had the roundest newborn head of the year so far (It was Jan 2). My mom is petting him in this picture.)



Travis holding his bundle of sunshine upon his return from the nursery.

I still wasn't in the mood to smile, although I was pleased Alex was back and okay.

I recovered. Later that evening, the hospital staff moved me to a recovery room (my labor room was needed), where Travis and I spent an uncomfortable night. Alex didn’t seem to mind much though.

Here's Alex, a little after midnight. He's a serene, happy baby, who in this picture, is anticipating a feeding.

The next day, Autumn (my sister) and my mom came by, and we all left the hospital after lunch.
Autumn and the baby

(These would be Autumn and Alex).

Here's Grandma and the baby.


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